Most people invest deeply in their careers, their health, their minds and leave intimacy for later. This is the work of going there. Through Somatica coaching, clients bring more presence, connection, and erotic aliveness into their relationships and into themselves. This might be the most important work you haven't done yet.
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Business. Leadership. Therapy. Dance. Sport. Nature. Meditation. Psychedelics. Sex and relationships. They're all ways we meet parts of ourselves.
And when you truly know yourself, the light and the shadow, that's when real intimacy becomes possible.
My work draws on all of these, using sex, intimacy and our closest relationships as a doorway to your richest, most connected life.
This work is about:
Today, my work lives at the intersection of the erotic and the everyday, helping people reconnect with their bodies, desires, and authentic expression, with equal parts play and depth.
I'm a Somatica®-trained coach, working with individuals and couples. Sessions are experiential, embodied, and tailored to you, exploring themes like desires, communication, and pleasure.
I offer a free first session for all new clients.
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A monthly gathering to build community around sex and intimacy, a place to learn, share, and play together. Different theme each month. Discussion, sharing, and workshop activities.
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I love group work, learning in an immersive container together is incredibly powerful. From half-day introductions to multi-day deep dives into power, presence, and play.
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So many women I've talked to about 'Sex Club', a small women's group I run, have asked to be part of it. It's so hard to say no, I want to talk about sex with all these incredible women!
I'm excited to launch a more inclusive format that allows us to build community around sex and intimacy, a place to learn, share, and play together. It will be a monthly gathering with a mix of discussion, sharing, and workshop activities. Different theme each month.
It's officially hot girl summer energy — we'll be diving into our hottest sexual experiences and sharing your best, juiciest, most honest sex tips. A bit of a Sex Club tradition and always great fun. Think book club, but for sex: a women's circle, embodied workshop, and group discussion rolled into one.
Facilitated by Simone
Register on EventbriteIf you'd rather join a virtual discussion, click here to join the waitlist and get notified when our virtual sessions launch.
A three-day workshop: an invitation to befriend the parts you tend to avoid and push away, explore power and sensation as gateways to self discovery, and craft scenes that open new realms of intimacy and potency with play partners.
Using the language and tools of BDSM, you'll work with your edges and patterns and learn the foundational tools to craft transformational scenes. For those who've already done meaningful personal, somatic, or relational work and have some BDSM experience, not for absolute beginners. By application; a $100 deposit is fully refunded if not accepted.
Facilitated by Carlin Gettliffe (lead) & Simone Girardeau
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I've always enjoyed having my feet in different worlds. On one side I was always the 'good girl' and A student, I loved school, studied Economics at Oxford University and went straight into the rat race of strategy consulting then private equity in London. And then there are many other sides, the outdoor adventurer, the hippie, the raver, the attention seeker, the slut, maybe not all in the way you assume!
I'm now a sex, intimacy and relationship coach and facilitator. I've trained with Somatica® and completed the Urban Tantra professional training with Barbara Carrellas.
I've been influenced by many trainings, events and reading over the last 10 years, authentic relating and circling, sensual massage, non-violent communication, the Wheel of Consent, amongst others.
Life has been my greatest teacher, I've learnt a huge amount from my dear friend, and ex partner of 12 years. Both being single and being in relationship can be so wonderful, so beautiful and also sometimes hard. I'm passionate about supporting people to navigate these different stages with the skills and knowledge I wish I'd had sooner!
I'm excited to discuss all topics regarding sex, intimacy and relationships but areas of particular personal interest include long-term relationships, non-traditional relationship structures, and exploring kink and tantra.
I used to imagine my purpose would lie in something like sustainability, regenerative business or healthcare, something that felt obviously world-changing. But life has a funny way of revealing where we're truly called.
I believe that if we really allow ourselves to embrace intimacy and connection we start living more authentically and sustainably. When we can access our own inner pleasure we don't need to buy as much stuff just to fill the void. When we truly love ourselves, we can also love others and our planet and treat them all with care and respect.
I also love being a bridge between worlds, whether that's introducing people who'd never think of attending a tantra workshop to these practices in a language they understand, or just helping people shed shame and embrace all parts of themselves. For me, this work is about joy, about being fully alive, and about creating a more loving and connected world, one intimate conversation at a time.
